Bob's experience, in his own words
Since's Bob's diagnosis became incurable two years ago, he and his family have found vital support at Birmingham St Mary's Hospice.
Each week he visits the Day Hospice, where he gets medical advice and care from the Hospice's specialist doctors and nurses, as well as a chance to meet other people facing a similar future through illness.
"You come to the Hospice and you think you are coming here to die, but in reality the Hospice does many other things," says Bob, adding, "It's there to support you and gives you and your family a rest from your life-threatening illness."
Controlling pain
If Bob's symptoms deteriorate he'll be admitted to the Inpatient Unit for more intensive care.
"If the Day Hospice isn't able to help, they will bring me in to the Inpatient Unit for a longer stay. I've stayed there a number of times and it's been a great help when my pain gets too much," Bob said.
This is typical for around 50 percent of Birmingham St Mary's Hospice inpatients, who return home feeling better after receiving medical and emotional care.
Indeed, emotional support is an important part of the Hospice's services.
"I've got a six-year-old brother and it's very reassuring to know that there will be support for him and other members of my family when I go," added Bob.
A hospice is more than just a building
Bob's story illustrates how a Hospice is so much more than just a building.
In the past he's received support from our Community Palliative Care Team, whose clinical nurse specialists visit patients and their families at home.
There's the Day Hospice, which offers a weekly chance to been seen by doctors and receive specialist care, in addition to creative, complementary and physiotherapies.
The Inpatient Unit is there for Bob if he suddenly finds himself needing intensive symptom management or respite.
And there is a team of family support staff, both paid and voluntary, who are their for the family to help with practical and emotional issues ranging from sorting out outstanding finances to coming to terms with loss and bereavement.
"I can't emphasise how much support the Hospice needs, it's a vital asset for families across Birmingham," Bob said.
* Bob is pictured with Community Fundraiser Jo Proudler. During the past year, Bob and his family have launched an all-out fundraising drive raising more than £7,500.
